Tn;a filaia j,g wdi flfklao @ tfykï wksjd¾fhka fuh lshjkak

Tn;a filaia j,g wdi flfklao @ tfykï wksjd¾fhka fuh lshjkak

fila‌ia‌ ^filaia& hk jpkh ldf.ka fyda uqúka m%isoaO ia‌:dkhlÈ Yío k.d msgjqj fyd;a fndfyda fokd tu mqoa.,hd foi n,kafka uyd úYd, jrola‌ l< whl= f,isks' tfia;a ke;skï keyeÈÉp jkpr mqoa.,fhl= f,isks' kuq;a wm rfÜ WoEik wjÈjQ fudfydf;a mgka rd;%sfha kskaog hk;=re jeäu Ndú;hla‌ we;s jpkh jkafkao fila‌ia‌h' j¾;udkfha ;reK ;re‚hkaf.a wdorfha m<uq ;ek zfila‌ia‌z h' /lshdjla‌ ,nd.ekSfï§ fyda Wiia‌ ùula‌ ,nd .ekSfï§ muKla‌ fkdj l%Svdfõ§ cd;sl lKa‌vdhug tla‌ùu i|ydo j¾;udkfha ola‍I;djhg jvd zfila‌ia‌z j,g uq,a;ek
,eî we;s nj miq.shod wkdjrKh úh'

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tfy;a wms ˜‍fila‌ia‌˜‍ .ek m%isoaêfha l;d ny lrkak melsf,kafkuq' kuq;a flá m‚jqv filaia u.ska fydr ryfia fila‌ia‌ .ek l;d lrkak m%sh lrkafkuq' tys m%;sM, fï jk úg wkdjrKh fjñka mj;S' tkï Èklg kS;s úfrdaë .íidjka 700 la‌ muK Y%S ,xldfõ isÿjk nj;ah' iEu i;shlg jrla‌ tÉ' whs' ù' wdidÈ;hka fofokl= muK jd¾;djk nj;ah' fï ish,a,g fya;=j wms fila‌ia‌ .ek fydfrka l;d ny lsÍuh'

j¾;udkfha wm Ôj;ajkafka w;s ÈhqKq ;dla‌I‚l f,dalhlh' tksid wm ysf;k ´kEu fohla‌ iq¿ fudfyd;lska ,nd.; yelsh' wjdikdjlg wm fndfyda fokd fuu ÈhqKq ;dla‌IKfhka ,nd.kafka w;HjYH foaj,a fkdj wkHjYH foaj,ah'

óg jir úia‌ilg muK fmr Y%S ,xldfõ m<uq taâia‌ frda.shd yuqùfï mqj; ie,ùu;a iu. rgu i,s; úh' taâia‌ hkq ,sx.sl l%shdjka wdY%s;j fndajk udrdka;sl frda.hls' tfiau fuh yg.kafka wkdrla‍Is; ,sx.sl weiqr ksidh' wkdrla‍Is; ,sx.sl weiqr hkq ;u úYajdi jka; iylrefjla‌ fyda iyldßhla‌ fkdùu iïu; ,sx.sl l%shdjkaf.ka Tíng .sh ,sx.sl l%shdjkays fh§u ,sx.sl fiaúldjka fyj;a .‚ld weiqrh' fujeks ,sx.sl lghq;a;lska taâia‌ frda.h fndajk neúka wm rfÜo fndfyda fokd taâia‌ frda.shl= yuqùu .ek mejiQ úg i,s;jkakg jQy'

yex.s yex.s fjia‌ nekao;a kgkak fjkafka t<smsg fia fydr ryfia wkshï ,sx.sl weiqr meje;ajQj;a taâia‌ frda.h je<÷k úg th yx.kakg neßh' taâia‌ frda.h je<÷k úg Bg n,mdk tÉ' whs' ù' ffjrih u.ska ñksia‌ isref¾ m%;sYla‌;sh l%ul%ufhka ÿ¾j, lrhs' túg b;d myiqfjka tu mqoa.,hd úúO wdidok frda.j,g f.dÿreúh yelsh' tmuKla‌o fkdj tu wdidok u.ska urKh b;d bla‌u‚ka <Ûdfõ'

hful= ñh .sfha taâia‌ frda.h ksid hEhs lshd fy<sjqjfyd;a Tyq fyda weh iu. weiqr meje;ajQ ish¨‍ fokdgu isÿjkafka ueß ueÍ Ôj;aùugh'

j¾;udkfha wm rfÜo tÉ'whs'ù' wdidê;hska ,la‍I folla‌ muK isák nj y÷kdf.k we;' Tjqka y÷kdf.k we;af;a wyïfnka fuka isÿ l< reêr mÍla‍Idjkays§h' b;d iq¿ msßila‌ fl,skau tÉ' whs' ù' frda. mÍla‍Idj i|yd fhduqùfï§ wdidê; nj y÷kdf.k we;'

jhi wjqreÿ 16 ;a 49 ;a w;r úfha miqjk ldka;djka iy msßñka b;d myiqfjka tÉ' whs' ù' wdidokhg f.dÿre úh yelsh' bka ñ§ug kï l< hq;af;a wdrla‍IdldÍ ,sx.sl weiqrl fhduqùuh'

úYajdijka; whl= iu. jqj ,sx.sl weiqf¾ fhfok úg Wm;a md,k fldmqjla‌ Ndú;hg fhduqúh yels kï jvd;a wdrla‍Id ldÍh'

tÉ' whs' ù' wdidokh jk ;j;a tla‌ l%uhla‌ jk u;ao%jH tkak;a lgq Ndú;fhka YÍr .;lr .ekSu wm rfÜ nyq,j ke;' lsysm fokl= tlu tkak;a lgqj Ndú;h ksid tÉ' whs' ù' wdidÈ;hl= isáh fyd;a b;d myiqfjka tu mqoa.,hdf.a reêrh ksfrda.S whl=f.a reêrhg tla‌ùfuka taâia‌ frda.hg f.dÿreúh yelsh'

taâia‌ frda.h wm rg ;=< muKla‌ fkdj uq¿ f,dju fj,d.;a md,kh lsÍu fndfyda wmyiq jix.;hla‌ njg m;aj ;sfí' Bg fya;=ù we;af;a fuf,dj Wmka iEu whl=u jdf.a ,sx.sl l%shdjkg filaia j,g we;s f,d,a njh' ;reK jhfia§ we;sjk yeÛSï md,kh lr .ekSug wmyiqh' tksid ;reKúfha jeämqru ,sx.sl l%shdjkg keUqrefõ'

.eyekshla‌ bm§ we;af;a orejka ìyslrkakgh' msßñhl= ìysù we;af;a orejka yokakgh' th udkj ia‌jNdjh' tksid msßñhl= jhi wjqreÿ 12)14 w;rúfha§ ,sx.sl mßk;ùug m;ajQ úg Tyq ñh hk fudfyd; ola‌jdu th il%Shj mj;S' ldka;djkg jhi wjqreÿ 50)55 § muK orejka ìyslsÍfï yelshdj ksud jQjdg ,sx.sl wdYdj wjika fkdfõ' tho ñfhk;=reu mj;S'

fuu ;;a;ajh u; tÉ' whs' ù' wdidokh md,kh lsÍug kï Wm;a md,k fldmq Ndú;hg ck;dj yqre l< hq;=uh'

Tia‌fÜ%,shdfõ isâks kqjr fï Èkj, wä 60 la‌ Wi frdai meye;s Wm;amd,k fldmqjla‌ m%o¾Ykhg ;nd we;' bka n,dfmdfrd;a;=jkafka ;reK ;re‚hkg wdrla‍Is; ,sx.sl l%shdjka flfrys isysle|ùuls'

wm rfÜ fujekakla‌ m%o¾Ykh l< fyd;a Bg tfrysj iodpdrh ixia‌lD;sh ke.S isákq we;' kuq;a fï jk úg wm rg mqrd mehlg remsh,a 600 ;a 800 ;a w;r ñ,lg ,nd.; yels ldur myiqlï ´kE ;rï we;' fuu myiqlï ,nkafka nyq;rhla‌ wújdyl ;reK ;re‚hkah' Tjqka tys hkafka ,sx.slj tla‌ùugh' fydfrka f.dia‌ fydfrkau msgj hk fudjqkf.ka lSfhka lSfokl= tÉ' whs' ù' wdidÈ;hka oehs lshd okafka ke;'

tÉ' whs' ù' wdidokfha we;s Nhdklu ;;a;ajh jkqfha fuu ffjrih YÍr.;j jir lsysmhla‌ hgm;aj isg tljru u;=ùuh' tkï jir .Kkdjlg fmr meje;ajQ wkdrla‍Is; ,sx.sl iïnkaOfha m%;sM, u;=jk úg frda.shdg ta .ek u;lhla‌o ke;' tksid tÉ' whs' ù' frda.h md,kh i|yd yex.s yex.s fkdj m%isoaêfha l:d ny l< hq;=h' ,sx.dY%s; frda. iy taâia‌ u¾ok jevigyfka ,sx.dY%s; frda. ms<sn| úfYaI{ ffjoH fla' ta' tï' wdßhr;ak uy;d mejiQ mßÈ tfia fkdl< fyd;a Y%S ,xldfõ i;shlg jrla‌ tÉ' whs' ù' wdidÈ;hka fofokl= yuqùu fkdj Bg jvd fo.=Khla‌ jd¾;dúh yelsh'

ffjoH wdßhr;ak uy;d mjik mßÈ wdrla‍Il wxY idudðlhka" Wiia‌ wOHdmkh ,nk ;reK ;re‚hka" ksoyia‌ fjf<| l,dm j, fiajh lrk ;re‚hka b;d myiqfjka tÉ' whs' ù' wdidok i|yd f.dÿreúh yelsh' Bg fya;=j f,i ffjoHjrhd i|yka lrkafka Tjqka okafka ,sx.sl fiajkh ñi wdrla‍Is; ,sx.sl fiajkh fkdjk neúks'